So you have registered to FilipinoCupid, now what? It really depends on your goals that you want to achieve.
Sex Talk
If you want to have some sexually intensive conversation, you should know that filipinas can easily discard you as a chat mate if you go straight with talking about sex. That is, unless you masquerade yourself behind simple phrases, and emulate your desire to bring her to your own country. Let’s review best practices here 🙂
- mm nice baby I like your face / legs, cute - oh, thank you. blah blah - where are you right now? - in philippines / my room / internet shop (asking her about country makes for a total regret that she's not in US/UK/Australia) - you wanna visit UK?) - sure I want blah blah - maybe if you satisfy me well as gf I take you there as my wife :) - oh of course blah blah - are you sure? I'm very demanding :) - what kind of demanding? blah blah - you just don't know that I like my gf / wife to cook 3 different meals a day, I want to wake up to a morning blowjob, and I like anal sex also. hehe)
And then you get immediate reaction and see how matured she is in talking to foreigners. It is common she would accept to do everything from the demanding list. Next to often she will ask you for a gift, which means you should discard her. And least often she would just say that she’s “not that kind of girl”.
Or, get her interested by saying you have houses and other propery, then:
are you comfortable showing your body on cam baby?..
ok baby. just wear swim suit and show your curves so I can cum on you. I want you to be my gf
Real life meeting
If your main intention is to setup dates for serious relationship or casual sex, you have to account for a few things. First thing, filipinas chat a whole ton of guys at the same time. Second, you should never make them wait more then a couple weeks. Second comes from first actually: if you make them wait for a long time, they will simply meet another guy in those two weeks. Everything happens fast in their world. One week this girl is virgin, next week she has been sexually abused by some foreigner from your own country who came to Philippines earlier than you, in real life.
So what you gonna do? Here is one smart technique. Use it around one week before going to Philippines:
Hi baby... I just saw your profile and so impressed with your pictures.. All my life I am searching for someone.. and now I know it's you baby.. I want to go there to your country and see you. Can you meet me at airport baby.. Love you.. Michael…
This delivers a message that you are genuinely interested in meeting her. You are going there just for her. This will keep her excited for a while.
Younger girls, like 18 years old virgins, would be asking you to bring her a gift, sometimes expensive. Up to iPhone 6S :). That is normal with them, since they have absolutely zero experience meeting foreigners and they see a foreigner as a prince coming with golden wallet. Simply say you will bring it. Nobody will bother asking for it when you meet unless you mention about it yourself.
If you are already in the country, don’t ever do this:
Hi. you seem like a very nice girl. I am in Cebu City / Davao / Manila now. Do you want to meet up?
They just know you had sex to a bunch of girls and they are very cautious in meeting guys who’s already there what day already…
It is better to work it out like this instead:
Honey I saw your profile and I liked it very much. I will be staying in Manila for work very soon. would you like to meet that time? let me know your number in your reply message so I can text you when I’m around. thanks.
Don’t forget to specify name to make it authentic:
Hi Anne.. You seem very nice. I happen to be in Manila in a few weeks. So let me know your number. I'll text you when I'm around